Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Projecting love unto others...

Whatever happened to the age-old proverb reminding us, "It takes a village to raise a child." Or "With members of the whole community a child succeeds and thrives." Even the saying, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Where is all the love for others, lending a helping hand, or supporting a friend, neighbor, or co-worker in need.
I am often thrown into a whirl wind of emotions when I see a news story where a young child has been abused, or an elderly person has been robbed or attacked. I even cringe when I see judgement of others at the sight of old clothes, or even a homeless person. So what happened to a community as a whole. Is every one striving for another buck that we've hardened our hearts toward others. Are we moving so fast that we miss what counts the most and that's people.
I am making a stand to see more through the eyes of love, to cherish each individual I see. I vow to open my heart through compassion and understanding. I will help others be all they can be. Even if its a simple kind word or smile, that could be the only positive gesture they've received all year.
The first step to being a positive person starts with yourself. Taking time for a short break, a few moments of silence, or just walking outside to stretch your legs. Decreasing your stress, taking time to care for you shows that you value your life. Which will in turn project value in others.

Monday, December 27, 2010

Reflection

As the year comes to an end I like to take time to sit quietly and reflect on the year in past. I acknowledge my mistakes and want to grow and learn from them. I sit in refection of lifes questions and let the answers unfold. I desire to give the love I have and make a difference in someone else's life.

I have been blessed with a wonderful husband who has more love and charisma than anyone I have known. I pray for his health and strength to battle his cancer. I reflect in the times God has given me strength and endurance to see some days through. For without Gods strength and love I would be lost.

I have been given two daughters who make me feel inspired to be a better person. I see the future in their eyes. I help mold them into strong and loving ladies. I have made my mistakes and asked their forgiveness. However, I know they feel my love for them.

I have been blessed with a new friendship. She has supported me, made me laugh, and let me cry. She encourages me without even knowing. She lifts me up when I fall. Reflection of caring people in my life.

I recall what matters most, and what I am most grateful for. I ponder what the new year will bring, and how I will feel about lifes journey this time next year. Reflection helps me appreciate the ways God shows up in my life.